insecure girls

I have a question, blog. Why do girls try to hurt, scare, intimidate each other? I guess it stems down to insecurity. If you are insecure, then you feel threatened. If you feel threatened, then you lash out. I don’t think I’m like that. I don’t blame girls when my dude strays. (well, unless the chick knew about me and still pursued something with my guy. Then I blame them both.) One of my best girlfriends just had a situation with a guy friend. His on-again off-again girlfriend made him end their friendship. And, then the girl sent my friend the meanest email I’ve ever read. It all stems down to her insecurity, which she’s taking out on my friend. She feels threatened cause my friend is hot and cool and a professional. The girlfriend is none of those things, and she feels that the boyfriend will want to be with my friend. What she fails to realize is that my friend isn’t interested in the dude. But, because she was insecure, the friendship is over. That’s kind of sad. I personally had my own awkward girl encounter tonight at the gym. I went to the gym tonight to try to get a third day in. I’ve decided to kick up my routine. But, I didn’t feel like waiting around for a class, so I just went on the treadmill. While on the treadmill, my gym boy kept pretending to kick me and other little things like that, playing around while I worked out. After I finished, we started talking. Somehow we started talking about music, which led to him showing me his music collection on his iphone. This led me to see that he liked Dethklock, which got us to talking about Metalocalypse. Then, he showed me all these clips on his phone, which he made me listen to. Then he had me watch an entire episode on his phone. I ended up staying there for like an hour with him. Well, cut to the end and how I left. So, the work phone rings, and he goes outside to take the phone call so he can hear. I’m there at the front desk talking to the other dude. Well, then the other dude’s fiancée walks in. Now, whenever I encounter a girlfriend, I want to be nice to her so she doesn’t feel like I’m moving in on her territory. This girl doesn’t know me. To her, I’m just some chick at the gym talking to her man. So, I smile and try to be friendly. She doesn’t even acknowledge my existence. Literally, she doesn’t even look at me. She goes out of her way to ignore me. So, then gym boy comes back inside. The fiancée says “Hey Player. What do you have lined up tonight.” He said “Oh, not much. Just working.” She says “I thought you had a date.” He says “Oh yeah.” She says “Well, tell me about this girl. What are you going to do?” I don’t remember what he says aside from beer pong, cause now I’m feeling awkward. And, he’s all tense and you can tell he feels awkward. He’s not looking at me either. I wanted to leave, but thought that may be awkward. So, I just stood there feeling dumb. Then the girl says “I want to see what she looks like. Do you have pictures?” He says “Yeah, I have some pictures.” Which leads me to wonder if he met her online, or how he has pictures of her. Maybe he facebook stalked her. The girl says “Let me see.” So, Gym Boy pulls up pictures on his phone and shows them to her. I’m standing right next to him, so I see. Though, he tried to tilt it away from me so I couldn’t. The girl is a total blond bombshell. Real pretty, long, straight blond hair with huge fake boobs (which you could tell cause she was wearing a really low cut shirt). Wow, that’s my competition? I guess I can’t help but think that if he likes a girl like that, he definitely isn’t interested in me. I’m like the 180 degree opposite of this chick. So, then the fiancée leaves so she can change, cause she was taking the next class, which I was going to stay for. But, then I felt so awkward and had no idea what to do. So, I say that I’m taking off and I’ll see them tomorrow at class. Gym Boy says “Oh, you’re leaving?” I wanted to say “Am I supposed to entertain you until you leave for your date?!” but I said yeah. And then I say “Good luck tonight” cause what else am I supposed to do? At this point, it’s for sure that we’re just gym buddies, so I may as well try to save face and play it off. When I say that, he looks down all awkwardly. The other gym guy gives me a high five and says goodbye and that he’ll see me tomorrow. I dunno. It was real awkward. It just seemed like a bitchy, spiteful thing to do. I mean, the fiancée sees that there’s a girl there talking to him, yet she acts like that? That was pointless. I wasn’t even really talking to her man. But, at least it made me realize that getting involved with a dude at my gym would be a really dumb idea. I’m there to work out, not date.